{"id":1124,"date":"2023-10-07T08:40:16","date_gmt":"2023-10-07T05:40:16","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.netonda.com.tr\/marmara\/?p=1124"},"modified":"2023-10-07T08:40:16","modified_gmt":"2023-10-07T05:40:16","slug":"kavusamayan-asiklar-yan-yana-gomuldu-genclerin-mezarina-mem-u-zin-tulbendi-baglandi","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.netonda.com.tr\/marmara\/kavusamayan-asiklar-yan-yana-gomuldu-genclerin-mezarina-mem-u-zin-tulbendi-baglandi.html","title":{"rendered":"KAVU\u015eAMAYAN A\u015eIKLAR YAN YANA G\u00d6M\u00dcLD\u00dc, GEN\u00c7LER\u0130N MEZARINA MEM U Z\u0130N T\u00dcLBEND\u0130 BA\u011eLANDI"},"content":{"rendered":"
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Tan k\u00f6y\u00fcnde iddialara g\u00f6re, y\u0131llard\u0131r birbirine sevdal\u0131 olan Dilan Tuna ve Yakup S\u00f6nmez, kavu\u015famay\u0131nca hayatlar\u0131na son verdi. K\u00f6y\u00fc yasa bo\u011fan olayda 3 g\u00fcn ara ile intihar eden kavu\u015famayan a\u015f\u0131klar yan yana defnedildi. Gen\u00e7lerin mezarlar\u0131na gelin ve damat t\u00fclbentleri ba\u011fland\u0131. \u0130ntihar haberi ise sosyal medyada \u00e7ok h\u0131zl\u0131 bir \u015fekilde yay\u0131l\u0131rken kavu\u015famayan \u00e2\u015f\u0131klara ise Mem u Zin ile Kerem ile Asl\u0131 benzetmesi yap\u0131ld\u0131.<\/p>\n

“Kimse benden ba\u015fl\u0131k paras\u0131 istemedi” <\/b><\/p>\n

Tan k\u00f6y\u00fcnde ya\u015fayan ve sevdi\u011fine kavu\u015famad\u0131\u011f\u0131 i\u00e7in can\u0131na k\u0131yan Yakup S\u00f6nmez’in babas\u0131 F.S. ac\u0131lar\u0131n\u0131n b\u00fcy\u00fck oldu\u011funu belirterek yapt\u0131\u011f\u0131 yaz\u0131l\u0131 a\u00e7\u0131klamada, \u201cBen Yakup\u2019un babas\u0131y\u0131m. O\u011flum 26 ya\u015f\u0131ndayd\u0131. K\u00f6yden Dilan isminde gen\u00e7 bir k\u0131za sevdaland\u0131. Ben de babal\u0131k g\u00f6revi yaparak k\u0131z\u0131 istemeye gittim ama k\u0131z\u0131n babas\u0131 vermedi. Defalarca gittim \u00e7o\u011fu zaman bizi kap\u0131dan \u00e7evirdi. K\u00f6yde hat\u0131r\u0131 say\u0131l\u0131r kim varsa g\u00f6nderdim kap\u0131s\u0131na ama olmad\u0131. Dilan hayat\u0131na k\u0131yd\u0131ktan sonra ben \u00e7ocuklar\u0131ma ‘Yakup\u2019a dikkat edin’ dedim. Hi\u00e7 yaln\u0131z b\u0131rakmad\u0131k. En son ‘Koyunlar\u0131n yan\u0131na gidece\u011fim’ dedi ve gitti bir daha gelmedi. Her \u015fey bir anda oldu. Sosyal medyada g\u00fcndem oldu\u011fu gibi ba\u015fl\u0131k paras\u0131 gibi bir durum yok. Kimse benden ba\u015fl\u0131k paras\u0131 istemedi. Ke\u015fke ba\u015fl\u0131k paras\u0131 isteselerdi mal\u0131m m\u00fclk\u00fcm vard\u0131 o\u011fluma kurban ederdim. Ama \u015fimdi mal\u0131n m\u00fclk\u00fcn bir anlam\u0131 kalmad\u0131\u201d \u015feklinde konu\u015ftu.<\/p>\n

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“\u0130ki genci ba\u015fl\u0131k paras\u0131 denen ilkellik y\u00fcz\u00fcnden kaybetmi\u015fiz gibi g\u00f6stererek asl\u0131nda insanl\u0131kla hi\u00e7bir alakalar\u0131 olmad\u0131klar\u0131n\u0131 kan\u0131tlam\u0131\u015flard\u0131r”<\/strong><\/p>\n

Ayn\u0131 k\u00f6yde ya\u015fayan Dilan Tuna’n\u0131n babas\u0131 M.\u0130.T., sosyal medyada olan haberlerin asl\u0131 olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 iddia ederek yay\u0131mlad\u0131\u011f\u0131 yaz\u0131l\u0131 a\u00e7\u0131klamada, \u201c3 y\u0131l \u00f6nce k\u0131z\u0131m\u0131 istemeye geldiler. K\u0131z\u0131m k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck dedim. 3 y\u0131l boyunca kimse k\u0131z istemek i\u00e7in kap\u0131ma gelmedi. Kimseden ba\u015fl\u0131k paras\u0131 falan istemedim. \u00c7ocuklar\u0131n birbirini sevdi\u011fini de duymad\u0131m. Vahim olay ya\u015fand\u0131ktan sonra gen\u00e7lerin birbirlerine kar\u015f\u0131 sevgi beslediklerini duydum. Benim ailemi ve bana kar\u015f\u0131 sosyal medya ba\u015flat\u0131lan karalama kampanyas\u0131na kar\u015f\u0131 hukuki s\u00fcre\u00e7 ba\u015flatt\u0131m. Yay\u0131n organlar\u0131 ve internet ortam\u0131nda \u00e7\u0131kan mesnetsiz, ger\u00e7ekd\u0131\u015f\u0131, i\u011fren\u00e7 haberler yay\u0131nland\u0131\u011f\u0131 g\u00f6r\u00fclm\u00fc\u015ft\u00fcr. Bu yalan haberler taraf\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 \u00fczd\u00fc\u011f\u00fc gibi ac\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 da katbekat artt\u0131rm\u0131\u015ft\u0131r. Bu ki\u015filer sadece iki gen\u00e7 insan\u0131n g\u00fcnah\u0131n\u0131 almakla kalmam\u0131\u015f ayn\u0131 zaman da geni\u015f ailemizi de zan alt\u0131nda b\u0131rakm\u0131\u015ft\u0131r. Gen\u00e7lik heyecan\u0131n\u0131n bir anl\u0131k faciaya d\u00f6n\u00fc\u015fmesinin nedenini sanki evlenmek isteyen iki genci ba\u015fl\u0131k paras\u0131 denen ilkellik y\u00fcz\u00fcnden kaybetmi\u015fiz gibi g\u00f6stererek asl\u0131nda insanl\u0131kla hi\u00e7bir alakalar\u0131 olmad\u0131klar\u0131n\u0131 kan\u0131tlam\u0131\u015flard\u0131r. K\u00f6y\u00fcm\u00fcz zaten ba\u015fl\u0131k paras\u0131 denen olguyu kabul etmemekte ve gen\u00e7lerine b\u00f6yle bir \u00e7a\u011fd\u0131\u015f\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131 uygulamamaktad\u0131r. Tarihten beri medreseleriyle, \u00e2limleriyle ilim irfan yuvas\u0131 olan k\u00f6y\u00fcm\u00fczde ba\u015fl\u0131k paras\u0131 istendi\u011fi i\u00e7in iki gen\u00e7 intihar etti yalan\u0131n\u0131 s\u00f6ylemek sadece bir ahlaks\u0131zl\u0131k de\u011fil ayr\u0131ca hukuken de sonu\u00e7lar\u0131 olan bir su\u00e7tur. B\u00f6yle bir su\u00e7un hukuk kar\u015f\u0131s\u0131nda da bedelini ve cezas\u0131n\u0131 bu yalanlar\u0131 yayanlar\u0131n kar\u015f\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 bulmas\u0131 i\u00e7in her t\u00fcrl\u00fc \u00e7abay\u0131 g\u00f6sterece\u011fimizi kamuoyunun bilmesini isteriz\u201d dedi. \u0130HA <\/b><\/p>\n<\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Mu\u015f\u2019un Korkut il\u00e7esinde ‘baba inad\u0131’ iddias\u0131 y\u00fcz\u00fcnden kavu\u015famayan gen\u00e7 \u00e2\u015f\u0131klar hayatlar\u0131na son verdi. Y\u0131llard\u0131r birbirine sevdal\u0131 olan gen\u00e7ler 3 g\u00fcn ara ile intihar etti, mezarlar\u0131na ise gelin ve damat t\u00fclbendi ba\u011fland\u0131. Kimileri ya\u015fananlar\u0131 Ahmed-i Hani taraf\u0131ndan yaz\u0131ya ge\u00e7irilen destans\u0131 a\u015fk \u00f6yk\u00fcs\u00fc Mem \u00fb Z\u00een\u2019e benzetti, kimileri ise \u2018T\u00fcrkiye’de 2023’\u00fcn Kerem ile Asl\u0131\u2019s\u0131 diye \u00f6zetledi.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[13],"tags":[145,144,147,146,82],"class_list":["post-1124","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-yasam","tag-asik","tag-kavusamayan","tag-kerem-ile-asli","tag-mem-u-zin","tag-mezar"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.netonda.com.tr\/marmara\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1124","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.netonda.com.tr\/marmara\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.netonda.com.tr\/marmara\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.netonda.com.tr\/marmara\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.netonda.com.tr\/marmara\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=1124"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.netonda.com.tr\/marmara\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1124\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.netonda.com.tr\/marmara\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=1124"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.netonda.com.tr\/marmara\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=1124"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.netonda.com.tr\/marmara\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=1124"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}